Sunday, 15 April 2012

HOW TO REACH HAPPINESS

                                     Your happiness is your responsibility. Have you ever heard of this words before? Everyone deserves to be happy in this world, and everyone wants to be happy, no one chose to live in a misery state. it will be pathetic, if you choose to live in sorrow, misery. Instead, live your life to the fullest! Since we were born, actually, we already have the happiness inside ourselves. We are our parents happiness.


                                         To reach happiness, one should stop comparing with others. We as a human beings, of course, wants the best and perfect in our life. Who are we to be perfect? We are not God. Try to regard your weakness as a positive side of yourself, that you are different from others. Next, count your blessings, maybe we seldom forget about that, but when we realized how blessed we are, certainly, you will feel more happier. Giving is an essential key to happiness. While we often think that we will be happier when we receive, the truth is we are happier when we give. This is also one of the most difficult things to apply. You can apply this by finding someone in need and lending a helping hand. The person could be your family, friend, or even a stranger. You could also donate to a charity. Happiness is like a kiss, you must share it to enjoy it.


                                            To reach the total bliss in your life, you must devoted yourself to God, maybe, you will find the state of uncountable happiness. In the journey of seeking happiness, before reaching to it, God must tested his servant in order to make their life meaningful. Thus, by devoting yourself to God, you can achieve the blissful state of you soul, life as a whole.

THE PURSUIT OF HAPPiNESS

                                       This story describes a father's love towards his son. It tells the viewers that a father could do anything in order to see his son happy and content. Starring, Will Smith, together with his son, Jaden Smith. They had been through together, all those turbulence, hardship that eventually brings out a miracle. Will Smith was an inventor, and he invests all of his money in order to build and invent the machine. Sadly, all his efforts was in vain. At that time, they suffer the economic problem, that is lack of money. 

                                       He then, was been chased out from his rented house, his wife left him, and only his child did not left him. They even slept in a toilet, he was crying when thinking about their life. Until one day, he bumped into a person that change his whole life. He was been accepted to work in a company. Adapted from a true story, I may say, that this story inspire me a lot. It portrays love and sacrifice from a father towards his son.


                                        

ALL THE COOL KIDS ARE QUITTING FACEBOOK

                                             Facebook nowadays has become the most popular and famous virtual page for kids, especially. People perception, if you do not has Facebook, hence, you are not cool. what can be defined as cool? From my understanding, cool is something that stylish, and different. Perhaps? Regardless, all that, let us talk about, is quitting Facebook can be defined as cool? 


                                            Firstly, quitting Facebook can invites happiness in your life. Why did I said so? This is because, all the things that had been posted, sometimes are fake. People tend to make new relationships, posted fancy pictures, showing to the world, that they are happy, but in real life, they are not. It also can initiate dissatisfaction among your friends in Facebook, thus, they would be ungrateful with their life, they would feel jealous. Secondly, the more time you spend on Facebook, the more tendency in you to procrastinate your work. But, if you quit Facebook, maybe, you can have ample time to complete your work. Thirdly, Facebook can be the most dangerous page, if you has an enemy, maybe, they can spread the slander through the virtual page, and in the end, the one who suffer the grieve and pain is you, yourself. 


                                              Facebook has the positive sides too. If it was being used carefully, it can bring the good impacts. For instance, connecting our relatives, our long distance friends and getting wise informations from the trusted pages. Thus, you can expand ties and maintain the relationship, to keep them in touch. For online business, you can see, that they are seeking income in order to pursue their life. As for me, I would devoted myself to the Facebook and real life, equally. Think wisely, as it all depend on you.

FICKLE FRIENDS-FRENEMIES

                                    Between friends and foes whom do you like to mingle around if they are the same person that combines? sometimes, we did not realized that the person who we trusts the most, can turn out to the most evil and offensive person that ever exists in the whole wide world. how can a friend looks like an enemy? As for me, I had a little experience about this matter. It can be  the most horrendous thing that you could ever imagine. the person that we used to treat them nicely, suddenly, can turn out to the most evil monster! Seldom, people expect that friends should be the best in all way, the one who we can share problems, laughter and the one who that we can be ourselves, without any effort of pretentious feeling. 


                                      How can we detect the toxic in our friends? How can our friends turn out to be frenemies? Personally, I hate this bunch of "monkeys" literary, I would say. Here are the tips, based from my experience, if a friend, they would correct all of your mistakes, giving advice, and what the most important is, they are sincere to be friends with you. For the frenemies, they always seek opportunities to bring you down, make fun of you without considering your feelings, and selfish. Friends are amazing if you can find one best buddy to be crazy with. Stay away from frenemies as they can invite sorrow in your life.


                                     My parents always reminds me, that be wise at choosing friends. Friends can give such a great impact in our life. They are the one who can bring us to the upper level, and they also, can bring us to the bottom level. Remember, the envy feelings are everywhere, and especially, when our friends are not rejoice with our success, be careful, maybe they are the one who we should stay away. As the proverb always says, a friend in need is a friend indeed.