HOW TO REACH HAPPINESS

                                     Your happiness is your responsibility. Have you ever heard of this words before? Everyone deserves to be happy in this world, and everyone wants to be happy, no one chose to live in a misery state. it will be pathetic, if you choose to live in sorrow, misery. Instead, live your life to the fullest! Since we were born, actually, we already have the happiness inside ourselves. We are our parents happiness.


                                         To reach happiness, one should stop comparing with others. We as a human beings, of course, wants the best and perfect in our life. Who are we to be perfect? We are not God. Try to regard your weakness as a positive side of yourself, that you are different from others. Next, count your blessings, maybe we seldom forget about that, but when we realized how blessed we are, certainly, you will feel more happier. Giving is an essential key to happiness. While we often think that we will be happier when we receive, the truth is we are happier when we give. This is also one of the most difficult things to apply. You can apply this by finding someone in need and lending a helping hand. The person could be your family, friend, or even a stranger. You could also donate to a charity. Happiness is like a kiss, you must share it to enjoy it.


                                            To reach the total bliss in your life, you must devoted yourself to God, maybe, you will find the state of uncountable happiness. In the journey of seeking happiness, before reaching to it, God must tested his servant in order to make their life meaningful. Thus, by devoting yourself to God, you can achieve the blissful state of you soul, life as a whole.

THE PURSUIT OF HAPPiNESS

                                       This story describes a father's love towards his son. It tells the viewers that a father could do anything in order to see his son happy and content. Starring, Will Smith, together with his son, Jaden Smith. They had been through together, all those turbulence, hardship that eventually brings out a miracle. Will Smith was an inventor, and he invests all of his money in order to build and invent the machine. Sadly, all his efforts was in vain. At that time, they suffer the economic problem, that is lack of money. 

                                       He then, was been chased out from his rented house, his wife left him, and only his child did not left him. They even slept in a toilet, he was crying when thinking about their life. Until one day, he bumped into a person that change his whole life. He was been accepted to work in a company. Adapted from a true story, I may say, that this story inspire me a lot. It portrays love and sacrifice from a father towards his son.

                                        

ALL THE COOL KIDS ARE QUITTING FACEBOOK

                                             Facebook nowadays has become the most popular and famous virtual page for kids, especially. People perception, if you do not has Facebook, hence, you are not cool. what can be defined as cool? From my understanding, cool is something that stylish, and different. Perhaps? Regardless, all that, let us talk about, is quitting Facebook can be defined as cool? 


                                            Firstly, quitting Facebook can invites happiness in your life. Why did I said so? This is because, all the things that had been posted, sometimes are fake. People tend to make new relationships, posted fancy pictures, showing to the world, that they are happy, but in real life, they are not. It also can initiate dissatisfaction among your friends in Facebook, thus, they would be ungrateful with their life, they would feel jealous. Secondly, the more time you spend on Facebook, the more tendency in you to procrastinate your work. But, if you quit Facebook, maybe, you can have ample time to complete your work. Thirdly, Facebook can be the most dangerous page, if you has an enemy, maybe, they can spread the slander through the virtual page, and in the end, the one who suffer the grieve and pain is you, yourself. 


                                              Facebook has the positive sides too. If it was being used carefully, it can bring the good impacts. For instance, connecting our relatives, our long distance friends and getting wise informations from the trusted pages. Thus, you can expand ties and maintain the relationship, to keep them in touch. For online business, you can see, that they are seeking income in order to pursue their life. As for me, I would devoted myself to the Facebook and real life, equally. Think wisely, as it all depend on you.

FICKLE FRIENDS-FRENEMIES

                                    Between friends and foes whom do you like to mingle around if they are the same person that combines? sometimes, we did not realized that the person who we trusts the most, can turn out to the most evil and offensive person that ever exists in the whole wide world. how can a friend looks like an enemy? As for me, I had a little experience about this matter. It can be  the most horrendous thing that you could ever imagine. the person that we used to treat them nicely, suddenly, can turn out to the most evil monster! Seldom, people expect that friends should be the best in all way, the one who we can share problems, laughter and the one who that we can be ourselves, without any effort of pretentious feeling. 


                                      How can we detect the toxic in our friends? How can our friends turn out to be frenemies? Personally, I hate this bunch of "monkeys" literary, I would say. Here are the tips, based from my experience, if a friend, they would correct all of your mistakes, giving advice, and what the most important is, they are sincere to be friends with you. For the frenemies, they always seek opportunities to bring you down, make fun of you without considering your feelings, and selfish. Friends are amazing if you can find one best buddy to be crazy with. Stay away from frenemies as they can invite sorrow in your life.


                                     My parents always reminds me, that be wise at choosing friends. Friends can give such a great impact in our life. They are the one who can bring us to the upper level, and they also, can bring us to the bottom level. Remember, the envy feelings are everywhere, and especially, when our friends are not rejoice with our success, be careful, maybe they are the one who we should stay away. As the proverb always says, a friend in need is a friend indeed.

THINKING FOLLY

ECKHART TOLLE

Thinking folly, folly according to the Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary, lack of judgement, the fact of doing something stupid, or an activity or idea that lack of jugdement. The synonym is stupid. According to Eckhart Tolle, the original writer to his article, “The Power of Now” he prefers to think by using this method. Why? Because he do not want to burden his system of thought. Maybe, he refers this to his previous life. He once had a mental breakdown due to his seriousness in thinking, even the tiny problem can be a heavy, serious and been dragged to days, maybe weeks, months even years !

As for my opinion, thinking is good. We can’t regard that thinking can bring disease. Thinking can create creativity, imagination, new findings, wise jugdements, and also avoid us from being left behind. To develop and find solutions, one have to think first in order to seek for a better result. Hence, to be a good, better and the best, one have to think. If we think a lot, surely, it will create keenness in certain purpose of thinking. Show the interest of thinking, thus, people will respect you. Through thinking, we can plan. Planning for the future,is predicting the unexpected outcome that will arise. So, maybe, as a sign of preparation, we can prepare what need to be prepared, and done what need to be done. So, as for me, thinking is good, but not too much. As too much can kill.

THE PIANIST

In this particular movie titled “The Pianist “was been inspired by Wladyslaw Szpilman real life during the First World War. He was worked as a pianist in a radio station. When the Germans entered Warsaw, the Jews community has to wear the armband with the Star of David picture, to differentiate between the Jews and the Germany. Soon, their lives become deteriorate. The Germany forced them to live in a small area that has been separated from the outer world connection. They were prohibited from using the pavements, foods are barely able to get, money were been rationed by the Nazi.

This movie portrays the difficulties that the Jews had been through. They had been oppressed, treated like an animal, underestimated and been killed without any mercy or sympathy. In the Germans eyes, the Jews are merely pigs, and leeches that sucking blood endlessly. The jews are once dominated the Germans economy and oppressed the Germany by selling things at high price. Suddenly, there was a revival made by Adolf Hitler, to repay back on to their community.

WLADYSLAW SZPILMAN

Wladyslaw Szpilman himself, has to watched his society been punished for what they had done. The massacre that had been carried out is only a torment for their mistakes. He then pursue his life to an empty house where he find a can of pickles. He live there until he was been found by Captain Wilm Hosenfeld. Surprisingly, the captain did not kill him, instead he was the one who help Wladyslaw by providing him with food and jacket.

JACK THE RIPPER

Jack the Ripper once had rocked the London serenity. This case, even it has passed hundred years ago, but still it is shrouded in mystery, left to be unsolved. Jack the Ripper appeared in London and the name “Jack the Ripper” was given in order to gave the early impression towards people about his cruelty in killing his victims. He was also called the Whitechappel Murder and “Leather Apron” due to his professionalism in peeling his victims skins, internal body organ or what so ever that seems too gruesome to be told.

The victims usually a group of  prostitutes that work in Whitechappel area, however, the total is undefined until now. But, the police department stated that he was responsible upon the 9 killing serials. The 5 victims that involved were :

·         Mary Ann (Polly) Nichols, murdered Friday, August 31, 1888.

·         Annie Chapman, murdered Saturday, September 8, 1888.

·         Elizabeth Stride, murdered Sunday, September 30, 1888.

·         Catharine Eddowes, also murdered that same date.

the state where he left his victim

·         Mary Jane (Marie Jeanette) Kelly, murdered Friday, November 9, 1888.

All of them were found in a horrible state. The Ripper seized the women by their throats and strangled them until they were unconscious if not dead. The autopsies constantly revealed clear indications that the victims had been strangled. In the past some writers believed that the Ripper struck from behind when the victims were bent forward, their skirts hiked up their backsides while waiting to engage in anal sex. This is a very awkward arrangement and the risk that they may scream or elude his clutch's make this unacceptable. The Ripper then lowered his victims to the ground, their heads to his left. This has been proven by the position of the bodies in relation to walls and fences that show that there was virtually no room for the murderer to attack the body from the left side. No bruising on the back of the heads shows that he lowered the bodies to the ground rather than throwing or letting them fall. He then slaughter their throats, and took the viscera as a trophy, a token of killing the prostitutes.

MEN and WOMEN are MERELY PLAYERS

 

Men and women are merely players. Why is this happen? Human being are made to suits themselves to the situation. We are easily blending ourselves in certain group according to their way of lifestyle, converse and so on. Human beings are being players because of these factors. That is:

·         Being a hypocrite so that we can be accepted by our surroundings, our society.

·         The people committing hypocritical acts normally try to use some form of rationalization to justify their actions. A man committing adultery may say that he is only breaking his wedding vows by having sex with prostitutes. The ultimate rationalization is the phrase, "I just couldn't help myself." From these statements, clearly, human can change their thought in a few seconds, in order to twist the facts and save themselves from difficulties.

·         So that people won’t underestimate your capability in dissolving yourself with the society. How you use your social skills, maybe?

·         The vivid evidence is when, as a Muslim, we are compulsory to perform 5 times prayer a day, but the truth is, after performing the prayers, we usually, came back to our “regular” lives. What I mean by “regular” lives is when we lead our way of daily life.

·         Double-faced person maybe is being consider as the opportunity grabber. Look at the scenario now, the one who always talk in sweet and flowery words, always been given the best opportunity.

·         Men and women are merely players, to fulfilled human needs, our surroundings, our society, not OURSELVES NECESSITIES.